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Showing posts with label Baby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Baby. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Majlis Kesyukuran & Cukur Jambul Si Permata Hati

Salamwrt. alhamdulillah...pantang 44 hari ummi dah nk abih..haih....tak sabar rasanyer...yg best pantang kali nih..ummi tak ler sorg2..terkelip2 bijik mater dgn baby time semer owang buat kijer sendirik...maleh nk citer panjang2..kot kang baby Hannan bangun nk nyusu lak..layan jer la pic maser Majlis Akikah & Kesyukuran & Cukur Jambul baby Aimin dan Hannan nih yerk..


Baby Aimin 'cool' jerk...;))

Baby Hannan nih tido sajer...huhu


Samerr..tapi tak serupa...;)



Senyuman bonda yang malu2...menyambut double prosperity thn nih..;)

p/s: haihh..teringin double prosperity burger la plok..ngeh ngeh ngeh..



OKB pada hari tersebut..hehehe...Banyaknye duit Aimin..sengih comel jer dia...;)

byeee... Layaannnzzz!!







Thursday, January 14, 2010

Kelahiran Yang Di Nanti...

Salamwrt..
Ari nih genap seminggu kelahiran A.H.A...nih baru rasa ada masa dan rasa sihat skit nk dok lelama..nih pun sambil2 dok bertungku lagi..sengaja ummi singgah kt blog..rindu sbenanyer kt blog kesayangan nih...tempat ummi berkongsi rasa suka..duka..ceria..dan nak mengada2..ngeh ngeh ngeh..


dan baby A.H.A dngan rasminyer di namakan

Abdul Hannan Abqari
3.3 kg
5.04 pagi
Jumaat 08.01.2010


[Gambar jam 6.00 pagi..selepas sejam di lahirkan]

Alhamdulillah...lama ummi menunggu..hingga ke hari2 terakhir...ingatkan Hannan nak kuar 10.01.2010...hehe...alhamdulillah..kelahiran kedua nih..Allah permudahkan...Syukur sgt2...Ummi tak sakit lama2 sgt...sampai tak sempat nk daftar masuk wad...sampai2 terus masuk labour room...dalam 30 minit jer..baby Hannan dah selamat melihat dunia...Syukur juga..walaupun abg Hadi sedang dalam fasa'membuas'...Allah permudahkan ummi menjaga baby Hannan...baikk sgt...lepas kenyang susu..terus tido..sampai ummi kena kejut lak sbb susu ummi dah makin banyak..


Hannan pnyer citer..kena jaundis smpai kna masuk wad..so..bermalam ler kami dua beranak di wad SCN HTAA..alhamdulillah..semalaman jer..jaundis Hannan turun mendadak dari 419 ker 199..dan di benarkan balik umah hari rabu kemarin...


Harapnyer anak ummi nih makin sihat dan ceria meniti kehidupan seterusnya...


Tak lupa juga kelahiran yang di nanti sejak 13 tahun lalu...Tahniah buat Kak dan Abg Long

Izzul Aimin Zareef - 26 Disember 2009

Monday, December 28, 2009

Curious Kids Need To Be Tough Inside

*This post are specially made for Nuffnang Friso Gold Family Day Out Contest*

What to Expect at the Nuffnang Friso Gold Family Day Out?

Loads of fun for you and your kids! There will be games and contests that your children will go crazy about, not to mention the spacious play area! For the adults, while your kids are occupied, we have arranged some great programs for you too!

Ruth Liew, the popular parenting and child care columnist on the local The Star newspaper would be sharing her valuable experience and expert advice on parenting.

We will have an expert nutritionist from Friso Gold to share her expert opinions on the matter of balanced diet and of course good nutrition in supporting your child's immune system.

And lastly, we are going to have a sharing session among the parent bloggers, this is when you can share your experience and exchange tips on parenting!

Did we mention that lunch will be fully provided? ;)

How do I get an Invite to the Event?

Simple! See the Picture Upload function ? Come up with a design of your own to show how your kids fight off the bacterias and germs! Then put up a blog entry with the theme "Curious kids need to be tough inside" and tell us how you can help increase your child’s immune system

. Then submit your entry via the form below.

The most interesting 80 entries will be given a family invite (for 2

adults and 2 children) to attend the Nuffnang Friso Gold Family Day Out.

And the blogger with the best entry would be walking away with a 3 Days 2 Nights holiday package for a family of 4 to Disneyland Hong Kong!

Not to forget RM100 Toys ‘R’ Us vouchers to be given aw

ay to the 10 blog entries with the most effort.

A.B.Q.A.R.I Step To Increase My Baby Immune Inside.

Why I named it as ABQARI Step? Of course it is the name of my beloved son. By the way, in Arabic literacy, ABQARI could be means as genius, brilliance, intelligence, smarts, outstanding ability and curiosity. The curiosity and the kids or infants are always bonded. Active kids with high curiosity are always being a victorious. Let me show you how I help my curious son to be tough inside using A.B.Q.A.R.I method:

A – Allow The Curiosity – It’s Time To Explore!

Toddlers in my little Abqari age are literally scooting away from b abyhood in search of new adventures. They're learning to talk, to walk and run, and to assert their independence. For my little Abqari, "outside" and "play" are becoming common requests.

Exploring also gives him a chance to work on important motor skills. Whether it's kicking a ball or climbing stairs, he can persist until he get it right. Doing so not only adds skills, it boosts his sense of confidence and competence. In other words, he begin to think: "I can do it!"

Letting my little Abqari explore is one way to see that he
get enough daily ph ysical activity. Exploring fits well in that free-play category below. For kids 12- to 36-months-old, current guidelines from the National Association for Sports & Physical Education (NASPE) recommend:

at least 30 minutes of structured physical activity (adult-led)
at least 60 minutes unstructured physical activity (free play)

My Ideas For Exploring:

Inside- Practically during this ‘Tengkujuh’ season

Mirror, mirror -

At this stage, he learns to recognize themselves in pictures or mirrors. Securely set up a mirror at eye level and let your him explore his own face. Ask "Where's your nose?" or "Can you open your mouth?" He also enjoy imitating the behavior of others. He loves playing physical or verbal imitation games.

Climbing mount staircase -

He likes to climb stairs. Go up and down together on stairs. On flat ground, we practice walking backwards or on tiptoes. He loves imitate animals (walk like a duck, jump like a frog, etc.) or dance to music.

Outside Exploring - Enjoying The Nature!


Play ball-

Have a variety of balls around to play with. During th is year, my beloved son learn to kick, throw, and catch balls.

Beach it-

Fortunately, we stay very near to the lovely windy beach. Water and sand are great tactile attractions for my little Abqari. I always let him feel sand on his toes and fingers. Of course there is a minimal supervision for my little Abqari enjoying around water; he is very exciting playing in the water and this also make me more happier.

Examine nature-

Encourage him to pick up leaves and rocks, feel the bark on trees, and collect bugs.

B – Balance Diet

At this age, my little Abqari moving from the eating habits he had as infants toward a diet more like us. I use to keep broadening my little Abqari’s appetite by introducing new flavors and textures. Food preferences are set early in life, so I help him develop a taste for healthy foods now.

Toddlers have little tummies, so serve foods that are packed with the nutrients they need to grow healthy and strong, and limit the sweets and empty calories. My little Abqari continue to explore self-feeding, first with fingers and then with utensils at around 15 to 18 months of age. I give him many opportunities to practice these skills, but lend a hand when frustrations arise. As skills develop, I step back and let him take over.

Milk is an important part of a toddler's diet because it provides calcium and vitamin D, which help build strong bones. Kids under age 2 should drink whole milk for the dietary fats needed for normal growth and brain development. I’ve decided to breastfeed my son before, but after confinement I’m failed to do so. I’m so disappointed and choose formula milk such Dutch Lady Step 1 & 2 followed by Dutch Lady 1,2,3 till now and will convert to Friso Gold then as he grows.


Q – Quality Time Sleep

My little Abqari are increasingly aware of his surroundings, so distractions might disrupt him at bedtime. His growing imaginations can start to interrupt sleep, too. Now more than ever, a simple and consistent bedtime routine is my best bet for getting a sleepy toddler snugly into bed.

My little Abqari requires about 10-13 hours of sleep a day. Whether all these hours are slept at night or split up between nighttime sleeping and daytime naps is up to his demand.

What I have aware most is not to put any extra-large soft toys or stuffed animals in the crib, and look out for items with ties or strings that could wind up around his neck. Also, be on constant lookout for nearby objects my little Abqari might be able to reach from a standing position in the crib: curtains, window blind pulls, pictures, or wall hangings are all possibilities.



A – Away Off Poisonous Foods and Medications

My little Abqari are curious and like to put things in his mouth. As a parents, therefore, must keep medicines, cleaning products, pesticides, antifreeze, cosmetics and other dangerous substances out of reach. I used to follow The American Academy of Pediatrics and other safety experts recommend that parents take the following steps to poison-proof their homes:

*Store medicines, cleaners and other dangerous products in a locked cabinet, preferably out of sight and reach of children.

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If I must store items under the sink, use safety latches that lock every time you close the cabinet.

*Buy and keep all medicines in containers with safety caps. Keep in mind these caps are child-resistant, not child-proof.

*I Do not let my little Abqari watch me take medicine because he may try to copy me.

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Check the label every time I give medicine to make sure I'm giving the right medication and doses. Mistakes are common in the middle of the night, so I always turn on a light.

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Store products in their original containers. I never put poisonous products in containers that were used for food, especially empty drink bottles, cans or cups.

*To dispose of medications, I've checked instructions on the drug label to see if they can be flushed down the toilet or poured down the drain. If not, take the medication out of the original container and mix with coffee grounds, kitty litter or any other unappetizing substance to prevent children from eating the medication. Place mixture in a sealable bag or disposable container with lid; be sure any personal information is concealed; then drop the item in the trash, along with the empty drug containers.

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If I find my little Abqari near an open or empty container of a nonfood item, I get him away from the product. If he has some of it in his mouth, i'll make him spit it out or remove it with fingers. Then take him to a doctor and bring the container and anything removed from the child’s mouth to help determine what kind of treatment the child needs.

Foods to Avoid

Although now I start to offer my little Abqari some of the foods I’ve been withholding (milk, citrus fruits, whole eggs), I’m always watch for allergic reactions. I’m avoid foods that could present choking hazards, like popcorn, hard candies, hot dogs, raw vegetables and hard fruits, whole grapes, raisins, and nuts. I’m supervise my little Abqari at all times when eating.

R – Routine Vaccination Scheduled By Malaysian Government

My Little Abqari have been vaccines all these compulsory schedule:

At birth: #BCG # Hepatitis B
2 months: # Hepatitis B # DTP (diphtheria ,tetanus & pertusis) #Hib (Haemophilus influenza type b) # Polio
3 months : # DTP # Polio # Hib # Hepatitis B
5 months: #DTP # Hib # DTP # Polio
12 months: # MMR (measles ,mumps,rubella)
18months: # Polio # DTP
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I – Increase Immunity From Invaders

There are tiny invaders thriving in our environment. Though not visible through the naked eye, they are everywhere – from the surfaces that we touch, to the air we breathe, and the food that we eat. These invaders, generically known as germs (viruses, bacteria, microbes, and parasites), look for every opportunity to invade the body and reproduce, as the body is an ideal environment for the propagation of these germs. When germs manage to get inside the body, they cause infections.

Thankfully, our body is actually able to protect itself through the body’s defense system. Made up of an intricate network of cells, tissues, and organs, the immune system offers an amazing protection mechanism that fends off the invasion by organisms outside the body.

During the early years of life, a child is most curious about the world – touching and feeling anything that he comes in contact with – which also makes him more susceptible to picking up various germs. Find out how the immune system offers my little Abqari 's protection round the clock.

First line of defence

Our child has generally has three types of immunity, the first being innate immunity. Also known as non-specific immunity, this first line of defence against foreign invaders are inherent in each individual. They provide general protection and respond immediately against any possible threats to the body. This includes the external barriers of the body, such as:

*Skin*

This is the primary physical barrier between germs and the body. Skin is tough and generally impermeable to bacteria and viruses. Additionally, the skin also secretes antibacterial substances, mildly antiseptic sweat and sebum that prevents entry and kills germs.

*Respiratory tract*

Being the main entry source of airborne pathogens, the respiratory tract is lined with mucous. Pathogens that are not killed immediately are trapped in the mucous and moved to the throat by tiny hairs called cilia.

*Stomach*

The hydrochloric acid produced and stored in the stomach will kill most invading organisms that reach this organ.

*Intestines*

Intestines are also lined with mucous, which serves to protect the intestines from digestive chemicals and harmful organisms. Additionally, mucous also contains an enzyme, lysozome, that breaks down the cell wall of many bacteria.

*Cellular defences*

If an invader slips through the barriers above, the immune system reacts by producing white blood cells, other chemicals, and proteins to attack and destroy the pathogens. The invaders are sought out and destroyed before they can reproduce.

Second line reinforcements

The second form of immunity is called acquired (or specific) immunity. It protects against pathogens that manage to survive the first line of defence. Unlike innate immunity, it is not present at birth and takes time to develop.

Through encounters with foreign substances, acquired immunity learns the best way to attack each pathogen, eliminate them from the body and develops a memory for that pathogen. In the event of a subsequent attack, the immune system will be able to respond more rapidly and effectively, providing better protection.

Generally, the most important components of acquired immunity are:

*Lymphocytes*

Lymphocytes are a type of white blood cell that circulate in the blood stream. When antigens are detected, several types of cells work together to recognise and eliminate them. This occurs a few days after exposure of a foreign microorganism. The main types are T-cells and B-cells.

*Antibodies*

Antibodies are proteins produced by B cells by binding to the antigens. By doing so, they protect the body by helping cells ingest antigens, inactivating toxic substances produced by bacteria, and directly attacking bacteria and viruses and activating the complement system.

*Memory T and B cells*

After an encounter with a foreign microorganism, some lymphocytes develop into memory cells. When these cells encounter the same microorganism for the second time, they recognise it immediately and respond quickly. These cells live for a long time – extending from years to decades.

Passive defence

The third type of immunity that your child may obtain is passive immunity. Passive immunity refers to the protection that is adopted from another source and it is typically short-lived. For instance, antibodies in a mother’s breast milk provides baby with temporary immunity to illnesses the mother has been exposed to. This helps protect the baby against infection during the early stages of life.

The immune system works in concert with every system in the body. When it works, your child will be able to develop to his maximum potential, but when it malfunctions, terrible things will happen. Understanding your child’s immune system is crucial, as it can provide good indication of your child’s well-being and also guide you to help you maintain your child’s immune system at its optimal best.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Baby With Transport Contest

Sticky Mode Sehingga 15 Disember 2009
Salamwrt.

Waktu blogwalking...ummi jumpe contest nih...sekadar memeriahkan dunia bloggger dan menghias blog ummi nih..sajer nk join contest nih....


menang ker kalah ker belakang kire..ummi suka sgt tgk gambo hadi masa 1st time dpt keter..selok kemain dia tolok keter nih..


Nama Budak Bertuah: Abdul Hadi Abqari
Umur Budak Bertuah: 1 Tahun 9 Bln

Baba beli keter nih masa Hadi baru pandai jalan...org tua2 kater...'dapat kaki'..masa tuh umo budak bertuah nih..10bln ++..nk masuk 11 bln...nilah mainan pertama yang baba belikan utk anak kesayangan yang yang ada ciri2 mainan budak lelaki sejati...sebelum2 nih...main keter ferrari kecik hadiah SHELL yang baba simpan buat koleksi
[dapat ker budak bertuah nih...habis punahhh ranah...ekekkeke]

Ummi amik gambar nih....masa petang2..sementara nk maghrib...masa nih dia tgh syok berangan...tak tau ler..ape yg budak nih tgh angankan..semer org lalu..dia lambai...agaknyer...ajak org naik keter dia la kot..tak pun nk tunjuk kt org yg dia ada keter tuh..... bajet cam dia sorang jer yg ada keter gtuh....agaknyerlaa

Kelebihan sejak ada 'transport' sendiri nih...ummi tak perlu lg 'assist' dia nk berjalan..dia dah pandai tolak keter..n kontrol 'speed' sendiri [ gitu ker??] dan yang paling ummi ingat sgt...dia dah semakin rajin tolong hambat kambing baba n abah....


video nih..sekadar penambah perisa jer...takde kaitan dgn n3 contest pun..hehe

Kowang..ibu2..bapak2..nk join gak??? jom terjahh

syarat2 nk join contest ni:

1. mestilah jd follower umminabilah and masukkan dlm bloglist korang....

2.copy banner kt atas kt sidebar anda and ltk kan link contest ni...

3. Buat satu entri & upload kan pic ank korang dgn aksi bersama transport diorang, letakkan nama , umur dan ceritakan sedikit pasal pic tu....transport tu xkira lah bentuk ape...tapi yg diorang main lah...walker x termasuk k...

4. umur anak korang mestilah 0-3 tahun...kalau pic tu diambil smasa umur ank anda x melebihi
3 tahun boleh lah diterima...

5.hanya 1 pic saja yg dibenarkan utk diupload kalau korang nk ltk banyak pun xpe tp umminabilah lah yg rambang mata nk pilih...tajuk kat atas je dterima

6. hanya seorang ank jek yg dbenarkan msuk contest ni...kalau yg ramai ank dia ade pic dgn transport, korang pilih lah yg tercomel skali nk ltk kt n3 tu...

7. contest ini bermula pada hari ini 15 Nov 09 dan akan berakhir tepat pada pukul 12 tghari 15 Dis 09. selepas dr tarikh tu x akan dilayan k...

8. terbuka kepada boy n girl k...

9. sesudah wat n3 contest ni silalah tgal jejak kat bawah bersama link korang kt blog umminabilah k?

...haaa...syarat2 nye cukup mudah...so ape lagi jomlah join...
pemenang akan dipilih seramai 3 org
...dan dipilih oleh juri professional...hehe...professional ke?
top ten akan dipilih oleh kawan baik umminabilah
top five akan ditapis oleh hubby umminabilah
and top 3 akan dipilih umminabilah sendiri....so ape lagi....join lah...



Monday, December 14, 2009

Menghitung Hari Part 1: Ummi's n Baby A.H.A's Preparation List

Salamwrt...

memandangkan ummi dah masuk fasa akhir last trimester...today tepat 36 minggu..ummi baru jer buat persiapan ni lebih kurang 2 minggu sudah...hehehe..mentang2 la 2nd baby...lengah2 jer ek..;)...tapi bukan ummi luper tau...mana bleh luper..dah 9 bln si comel A.H.A dok dlm pewot nih...skrg hari2 dok menendang...takkan luper pnyerr...

Untuk Baby A.H.A

Pakaian
1. Baju:
saiz new born - 5 pasang (2 pasang baju baru..3 pasang lagi abg Hadi pnyer..ada sesaper nk sponsor lagik??)

2. Stokin/sarung tangan dan kaki: 5-7 pasang...abg Hadi punyer gak

3. Sapu tangan: 10 helai..lebih kurang ler...rasanyer lebih

4. Tuala mandi: 2 helai

5. Lampin kain: Abg Hadi tak pakai pun..so bleh guna smula...

6. Kain bedung: 3 helai [ mak ngah Aini bagi]

7. Selimut : Ummi tgh cari kt mana la ummi letak yg abg Hadi pnyer...dah di 'faraid'kan kot..

8. Topi : topi..makteh Irah bagi..topi comel abg Amir pnyer...

9.Barut bayi / binder: 5 ker 10 helai...kongsi2 ler ngan anak Ibu Aida nanti...hehe

Dandanan dan Ubatan

1. Minyak yuyi/minyak mestika - ingat nk pakai minyak mestika cam abg Hadi..kentut memanjang...
2. Minyak bayi - blum decide nk bli johnson baby oil, minyak zaitun pure atau minyak kelapa dara
3. Syampu/sabun - recycle hadiah abg Hadi pnyer jer..sbb ummi tak guna pek kecik2 kt umah..
4. Ketip kuku (nail clipper) dan setnya dengan gunting kecik - yang ni kna beli balik..dah hilang
5. Pembersih hidung - dah ada
6. Krim lampin - ni tgk la klu kulit baby A.H.A cam abg Hadi gak..kna wat stok laa
7. Lampin pakai buang saiz newborn - dah bli pek kecik...pastu ummi nk try dgn CD
8. Sikat lembut - tgk keperluan la..klu ikut gen baba yg kureng rambut..tak perlu la kot..;)
9. Kapas muka / cotton ball - dah ada dah

Feeding

1. Botol susu - tgh survey yg BPA Free...klu budget lebih..bleh try anti colic pnyer plak ke
2. Puting getah untuk newborn (tengok saiz) - masih survey
3. Pembersih botol susu - kongsi ngan abg Hadi
4. Steriliser - rasa cam tak perlu sgt laa..tp kot dapat giveaway ker..menang contest ker..ok gak;)

Peralatan

1. Besen mandi - mandi lam sinki jerlaa yer A.H.A..?
2. Stroller - tgk ler keperluan..klu jenis tak reti diam cam abg Hadi..tak beli la kot..
3. Katil bayi - tak perlu..ummi nk tdo ngan baby A.H.A..takkan umi nk dok lam katil baby kot..
4. Kelambu payung - nanti pinjam yg kak maiyra pnyer...yg abg Hadi ummi dah bg Ibu Aida..
5. Bakul atau beg untuk simpan barang2 baby - dah ada
6. Lapik plastik/getah untuk salin lampin bayi - erm..kna bli baru..yg abg Hadi pyer dah lunyai..putus dua..
7. Tilam bayi - ummi ada baca review ~jangan pilih yg terlalu empuk sampai muka baby boleh terbenam dalam tu ..bimbang kot baby tak bleh bernafas...isk seram ummi..pakai toto 'bacin' abg Hadi jerlaa...[ Ummi dah basuh laaa]
8. Bantal dan bantal peluk - sebulan pertama tak pakai bantal, paeditrician tak galakkan

Untuk Ummi

1. Breastpump - tgh survey...
2. Bekas puding yang kecik comel tu untuk isi susu badan
3. Barut - survey set2 bersalin yg ada barut skali
4. Batu sungai - baba kena gi cari kt Sg. Lembing smula la..sbb yg ada tuh..dah pecah dua..Hadi buat main boling padang
5. Stokin tebal - pinjam stokin bola baba...so baba..sila cuti dari main bola selama 2 bulan ok??
6. Nursing bra - survey n order ngan dealer AVON jer..murah skit

rasanye dah cukup...dan lebih dari cukup...;)

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Seindah Butterfly Giveaway Kategori (B)

Assalamualaikum ummi nk mengontest lagik nih..sementara Hadi tgh tdo tuh.. peace

Tarikh Luput: 6 Disember 2009

...SYARAT2 SAH PENYERTAAN...

  • Jadik FOLLOWER blog ni dan blog sponsor - baikk puan
  • Masukkan kami lam BLOGLIST kowang - baikk puan
  • Letak BANNER yg Puan Mai dah tulun buat diatas kat entry dan sidebar blog kowang dan link ke entry ni - baiikk puan
  • Buat entry lam blog kowang dgn hanya menggunakan tajuk
    "Seindah Butterfly" Giveaway Kategori B
  • Upload hanya SEKETUL gambar comey dan cute miut anak kowang xkirelah dlm keadaan ape skali pun tapi 12sx xmau yer jelir Pastu cerite la sket2 pasal ank kowang alang2 tu kan...- baikk puann
  • Jangan luper letak name & umur so comey yer -udah yer puan -udahh puan
  • Anak kowang perlulah berusia diantara 1 HARI - 12 TAHUN - seswai jer puann
  • Kalau ade 10 org anak, bermakne 10 gambar boley di upload tp setiap gambar mesti ade gambar peserta saje.. mok atau pok nye walaupun cute miut xdibenarkan inteprem, ok!! takbole -ok puann
  • Makesure si cute miut tu anak kowang dan anak kucing xkan dilayan
  • PERINGATAN!! TLG JGN PHO TOSHOPkan GAMBAR ANAK KOWANG, OK takbole
  • Kowang jugak merelakan gambar si comey kowang diabadikan dlm blog ini nnt - boleh ajer puan
  • Kowang jugak dipersilakan untuk menerjah blog sponsor dan di entry anda nnt bgtau 3 design baju / ape2 je yg ader lam blog sponsor yg kowang minat. Mane tau powan cuda terharu lalu diberinye ketiga2 itu kepada pemenang ihikhik -ni paling best puan
  • Tinggalkan link entry kowang lam comm ent box entry ni. - udah puann
  • Sy akan tinggalkan jejak di entry anda, I'Allah.. -terjah jgn tak terjah yer puaan



Ummi suka gambo nih....cute kan??? [perasan ler mak budak tuh]

Nama: Abdul Hadi Abqari
Umur: 1 tahun 8 bulan

Budak nih lahir kt HTAA Kuantan 17 Mac 2008...sekarang nih 'baru dapat mulut'...maksudnyer..baru pandai cakap ler...semer yang dia dengo..dia sebut...semer nk citer kt orang..kadang-kadang ntah ape bende dia citer..tadak sorang pun yang paham..tapi yg peliknyer..semer org bleh angguk jer klu dia cakap ape2...budak nih pun dah pandai menyakat ummi dia...klu naik mandi..kan main susah nk pakai diaper...kena keliling umah..tangkap dia dulu...kadang2 main sampai tertido..pastu siap ngiga u2...dan ayat terbaru dia yg buat ummi geli ati...klu dia buat silap dan dia tahu tu adalah kesilapan dia...dia akan cakap..
"Hadii..Hadi..isk..isk..isk.."
[siap geleng2...cam xpresi ummi slalu buat kt dia]

ummi teruja sungguh dengan hadiah2 dlm blog sponsor nih..
Hadiah disponsor oleh :


klu ummi terpilih as winner...ummi pilih yang nih...
[sbenanyer ummi suker sumer design..sumer lawa] cuma kena tuka wording "my ummi & baba"
yang lain2 design..ummi suker sumer...tak kisah nk bg yg maner..
[bajet cam dia menang jer.....:P]

&

adiah misteri dari Abu Dhabi kenyit


unta kah?? fikir

Hallamakk...dah bangun dah my prince...kategori ser lagik tuh..klu ummi sempat ummi join ler..kna tunggu dia tdo gaks..ehehe..

baiiii...

Monday, November 9, 2009

Puting Bayi...Bukan Pilihan Terbaik

Salamwrt.

Sekarang baby A.H.A dah 31 minggu...hmm..ummi menunggu hari dah nih...pinggang pun dah sakit2..lenguh2..hopefully anak ummi selesa kat dalam..sorry ye syg..klu sesekali abg Hadi menghimpit..kesian jugak kat abg Hadi..cam tau2 jer adik dia dah on the way...so mungkin masa ni la dia amik masa nk bermanja dgn ummi dan baba...insya Allah..ummi dan baba takkan bezakan anak2 ummi nanti...semua kami syg...sayanggg sgt2..sbb sygla ummi tak bezakan persiapan menyambut si adik...walaupun brg2 abg Hadi byk yg bleh guna lg..nnt la ummi buat hospital list [hehehe...klu sempat...takut masuk labour dulu jek]..

sesambil ummi menambah ilmu ttg breastfeeding..ummi jumpa artikel ttg puting bayi nih...alhamdulillah abg Hadi dulu..xperience dgn puting nih tak lama...tak sampai berapa hari pun..abg Hadi mmg bijak...sesuai dgn nama dia ABQARI...ummi akui masa tu ummi dan baba kurang ilmu..abg Hadi nangis ummi sumbat puting angin ni...tp anak ummi yg bijak nih...pandai refuse..last2 puting tu pun hilang gitu jer..mujur gak dia hilang...dan ummi takkan cari lagi utk anak2 ummi yang lain...

huh ngeri!!!



ADAKAH anak anda menggunakan puting bayi? Jika ya, anda mungkin perlu menghadapi kenyataan yang pahit hasil penemuan terkini bidang perubatan.

Kanak-kanak yang menggunakan puting bayi sebenarnya berisiko tiga kali ganda menghadapi kesukaran bercakap ketika usia mereka menjelang dewasa kelak.

Tak ngeri ker????

Kajian saintis mendapati kanak-kanak prasekolah yang menggunakan puting bayi sekurang-kurangnya selama tiga tahun lebih cenderung mempunyai kesukaran membuat ucapan berbanding kanak-kanak yang langsung tidak menggunakan alat tersebut.

Penyelidikan tersebut turut membuktikan kanak-kanak yang menghisap jari juga menghadapi risiko lambat bercakap.

Kajian yang dijalankan sebelum ini oleh The American and Chilean adalah bagi mengetahui hubung kait antara tabiat suka menghisap ibu jari, penyusuan ibu dan penggunaan puting bayi bagi menenangkan bayi terhadap 128 orang kanak-kanak yang berumur antara tiga hingga lima tahun.

Mereka juga menggunakan ujian linguistik bagi mengenal pasti tahap normal perkembangan kebolehan bertutur dalam kalangan kanak-kanak tersebut terutama yang melibatkan sebutan dan bunyi huruf.

Menurut ketua penyelidik dari Universiti Washington, Dr. Clarita Barbosa, kanak-kanak yang menghisap jari, ibu jari atau puting bayi untuk tempoh sekurang-kurangnya selama tiga tahun akan mengalami gangguan dari segi perkembangan bahasa dan pertuturan sehingga tiga kali ganda.


BOTOL susu juga berupaya mengganggu perkembangan kanak-kanak.

Berbanding kanak-kanak yang diberi susu ibu sehingga mencecah usia sembilan bulan dan langsung tidak menggunakan botol susu, risiko terhadap mereka amat rendah.

"Hasil ujian ini menjelaskan bahawa lebih lama penggunaan puting bayi, kesukaran untuk bertutur akan semakin meningkat," jelas Barbosa.

Tambahnya, walaupun keputusan ini memerlukan bukti yang lebih mendalam terutama melibatkan jangka masa penyusuan ibu, orang ramai harus melihatnya sebagai langkah berjaga-jaga.

Perdebatan mengenai penggunaan puting bayi tersebut telah lama merunsingkan ibu bapa kerana sesetengah kanak-kanak amat selesa menggunakan puting tersebut bagi menenangkannya.

Doktor gigi bagaimanapun berkata, penggunaan puting bayi pada keadaan tertentu berupaya mengubah pembentukan gigi apabila digunakan terlalu lama.

Kajian itu dilakukan oleh sebuah pasukan dari de Rehabilitacion Club De Leones Cruz del Sur dan Universiti Washington. Ia diterbitkan dalam jurnal BMC Paediatrics.


AMALAN menggunakan puting bayi boleh mengakibatkan gejala kerosakan gigi pada kanak-kanak. - Gambar hiasan

Penggunaan secara berlebihan

Penggunaan puting bayi secara berlebihan, secara salah atau terlalu lama sehingga melangkaui zaman persekolahan boleh membawa kepada masalah mulut dan gigi.


Akibatnya:


* Gigi beralih posisi - Gigi tertolak ke depan menyebabkan gigi bawah dan atas bahagian depan tidak bertemu dengan baik.


* Kerosakan gigi (bahagian depan) - Berlaku jika puting bayi dicelup ke dalam bahan manis sebelum dihisap.


* Bernafas melalui mulut - Anak anda mungkin akan lebih cenderung untuk bernafas melalui mulut berbanding hidung. Keadaan ini boleh menyebabkan anak mengalami masalah air liur meleleh berpanjangan.


* Masalah pertuturan dan bahasa - Anak anda mungkin tidak dapat menggunakan sepenuhnya pergerakan lidah yang diperlukan untuk menghasilkan semua sebutan dan peluang mereka mungkin lebih tipis untuk menggunakan bunyi bagi tujuan berkomunikasi.


Kebaikannya...(pengalaman peribadi ummi)


Anak yang tidak menghisap puting tiruan ni..sebutannye lebih jelas..walaupun ada 'slang' pelat tu..tak boleh la nk nafikan..budak mmg melalui fasa tuh...tp pengalaman benar ummi dgn anak yang baru berusia 1 tahun 7 bulan...mmg berbeza...ada anak yg berusia dah 3 thn (no offence..tak maksudkan sesiapa)..tapi perkataan yg di sebut kurang jelas dan lebih susah utk paham..sbb dia dah terbiasa bercakap dgn sesuatu yg berada di dalam mulutnya...jadi perkataan itu tidak keluar dengan betul....


so konklusinya...berikan..sediakan..dan lakukan apa yg terbaik utk anak2 kita...kerana mereka adalah anak2 kita...walaupun sesusah mana kita menjaganya..insya Allah...ada hikmah di sebalik pemberiannya itu...anak adalah amanah Allah swt...


fikir2 kan dan selamat beramal!!!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Hand Foot Mouth Disease...?

Salam...

Memula...ummi pun tak tau H.F.M.D...tu menda pe? even...ummi tak penah amik kisah pun...sebelum nih...

tapi...pas balik dari KL baru nih...ummi tgk byk sgt blisters a.k.a bintik2 merah berair kt kws lampin abg Hadi...then..ummi mula wonder...what's this?

klu nk kate abg hadi alergik dgn cloth diapers yg ummi pakaikan kt dia...dah 8 bulan ummi 'CDing' abg Hadi..walaupun bukan fully CDing {sbb tak nk susahkan tok} tak penah ada masalah ruam lampin....mmg tak penahh...

sbb ummi mmg betul2 ikut petua ibu2 yg CDing their baby yg ummi baca dlm forum SusuIbu.Com dan RatuHati.Com...

prewash the CD's at least three times
using basic detergent (no enzymes...no fragrance)
no talcum powder
and so on...
even baba Hadi pun well trained handle those CD's

but the blisters...betul2 buat ummi tak tido lena...apatah lagi nampak mcm dah merebak ke kaki..n tangan sikit..pastu susu pun abg Hadi tanak minum sgt...

tanya kawan2...

kawan yg pertama ckp...
isk..anak ko tuh ada simptom penyakit kaki tangan & mulut...

reaksi ummi...
hah..? tu bukan penyakit lembu2 ker?...[nampak ler sgt ummi ni jahil ttg penyakit2 nih]

kawan yg kedua plak ckp...
ko tak tau ker kt Klang Valley mmg dah merebak penyakit HFMD nih...tapi pelik yer...biasa budak yg dok taska yg mudah kena nih...ko bawak anak ko gi mana weekend ari tuh?

reaksi ummi...
Ummi tak jawab pun sms dia..ummi jawab dalam ati jek..."aku bawak dia gi SOGO ari tuh..dah bertahun aku tak gi..." [baba Hadi yg ajak...dapat ler handbag sebijik...;))]

pastu tak puas ati agi...ummi tanye Dr. Google..mcm2 ler ummi jumpe...

dan seolah2nyer mengesahkan kata2 sahabat2 ummi tadik..

tapi....
abg Hadi tetap aktif...
tak demam pun...
tak minum susu sbb nk tumbuh 4 batang gigi taring lg....
(ayat2 nih..utk sedapkan hati ummi...)

balik..ummi pun ckp dgn baba dlm keta...baba ckp..kta tgk dulu camner...klu nampak tak ok..kita bawak gi klinik laa..ummi angguk jer...

mmg petang tu..abg Hadi demam sikit jer...
tapi main tetap main...
baba ckp..mlm nih kita gi klinik la...kesian kt dia...

smlm..
ummi & baba bawak abg Hadi gi klinik al-Amin..sepanjang dlm keta..mulut abg Hadi tak diam... asik tunjuk..

yoyii...a.k.a LORI..
doja...a.k.a BULLDOZER...[ even mende tuh kren skalipun..klu dah warna kuning..tetap DOJA]
bashh...a.k.a BAS [ klu lori kontena tu pun masuk dlm kategori BASHHH]...

klu sampai kt jambatan Tg. Lumpur...dia tunjuk..

BOTTT...yeay!! pastu tepuk2 tangan...

alahai...ilang skit resah ummi...

sampai klinik..

Ummi citer kt Doc...then Dr. Sayuti cek abg Hadi....

ummi nih..dup dap..dup..dap..

kata dia...
ni bukan rashes....bukan jugak campak...simptom2 ni sama mcm HFMD....but actually it's not HFMD...coz ur baby takde demam2...takde ulcers n his antibody are very strong..n look..he is very active..running here n there...so don't worry....maybe he is infected by the virus but not affected..i think he is only allergic to the food that u give....so..insya Allah...Hadi will be ok in few days..

ummi rasa...
ALHAMDULILLAH...syukur...!!!

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

~Semoga Semuanya Kembali Damai~

Salamwrt. Rindunyer pada kehijauan blog nih...apakan daya ummi ada tugas yg perlu di selesaikan...tapi setiap pagi ummi tak pernah lupa melawat 'baby cenonet' kt widget atas tuh...mmg teruja..wahh..baby ummi dah besar nih..dah 15 minggu dah..hari ni dah 108 hari menunggu dalam perut ummi...sabar ye sayang lagi 175 hari ummi dan baba akan sambut kehadiran mu dengan penuh kesyukuran..abg hadi mesti seronok dapat adik...tiap2 hari dia tepuk perut ummi...panggil "adik...adik.."tiap2 petang jugak ummi ajak dia geletek widget baby kt atas tu..suka sgt dia biler dengar bunyi ''baby'' gelak..hari2 abg hadi cium gambar sendiri yg ummi amik masa dia masih baby...agaknya abg hadi ingat tu la adik dia kot...suka ummi klu dia syg adik cam dia syg ''baby'' dalam gambar tu..."mmmmmuuahh baby"....kata abg hadi..Semoga Hadi akan jadi abg yang baik nnt...

Awal Julai nih, macam2 masalah menimpa ummi...HB ummi turun. mendadak..kurang dari 11..menyebabkan ummi teramat letih...BP ummi 90/50...teruk sgt!!! kata Misi yg rawat ummi kt klinik Penor...ummi terpaksa ke klinik 2 minggu sekali..tambah pulak...berat ummi pun turun..dari 50kg jadi 49.1kg...800g turun...mmg ummi takde selera makan...makan ala kadar jer..sekadar alas perut...pinggang ummi pun mula sakit2...mungkin baby dah tarik untuk pembentukan tulang kot...[agak2 ummi la..]

Pastu minggu lepas, satu lagi masalah menimpa...ummi tak tahu kat mana harus ummi mengadu..actually masalah tu masalah baba..tapi takkan ummi nk biar baba hadapi sendirian..ummi rasa nk menangis ada..geram pun ada..sakit hati ada...yg ummi paling pasti ummi dah mula menyampah kt "dia" tu. Ummi dan baba dah berkorban macam2 untuk "dia"..tapi kenapa dia balas begini kt kami?kalau ikut cerita baba...sangat sedih...baba nk belajar cukup susah...tp rezeki dia belajar sungguh2 sampai dapat pegi Mesir...kt Mesir pun baba bukan senang -lenang dapat scholarship...baba usaha jugak abiskan study dalam masa 2 tahun untuk dapatkan degree...walaupun tak seberapa..ummi tetap bangga sbb pada amatan ummi... nk lulus kat Mesir..sangat2 susah...ada yg amik masa bertahun2....baba tak cukup duit untuk gi ronda2 mcm ummi selalu baca cerita kawan2 ummi yg blajo di Mesir...kesian baba

ummi pun susah jugak masa belajar dulu...dok di asrama SMAI..tok hanya bagi yuran asrama dan belanja RM10 sebulan...dengan RM10 tu lah ummi berjimat..bukan tak jeles dgn kekawan..bleh beli itu ini...tapi masa tu.. ummi tahu...ummi kna SEDAR DIRI...ummi wajib SEDAR DIRI...sbb ummi hanya ada tok...tok bukan kerja macam ummi yang gaji ribu2 dan tiap2 bulan ada...tok cuma kerja kampung...pendapatan pun tak tentu setiap bulan...pencen arwah tok ki cuma RM300..tok masih ada 4 org anak yg perlu di sekolahkan termasuk ummi...pada zahirnya nampak mcm cukup...tapi sebenarnya tidak...kesian sungguh ummi tgk tok..korban siang malam untuk ummi, abah, ayah cik dan mok su...ummi insafkan diri...ummi jadikan ia motivasi untuk ummi terus berjaya...sampai ummi masuk U...ummi masih tak sampai hati nk minta duit dgn tok...melainkan dia bagi..tu pun..ummi berpada2 berbelanja...masa kt U ummi rajin puasa sunat..ummi jadikan amalan Rasulullah sebagai satu penguat motivasi ummi..selain dapat jimat..ummi dapat ikut sunnah..ummi dapat pahala jugak..

sedih sungguh ummi...gini rasanya bila pengorbanan sebagai "PENJAGA" tak di hargai...lebih sakit dari putus cinta...[ Hehehe...abg syttt!!]...sampai taip kt sini..ummi boleh menangis lagi..ikut kan hati ummi ni..ummi nak suruh "dia" balik "SANA"...biar "dia " rasa susahnya...biar lantak "dia" nk jadi apa...penat ummi dan baba nasihat "dia"..malu ummi dgn org MUIP ..biasiswa yg di beri...tak di guna sebaiknya oleh "dia"....semua biar..biar..biar...biar tak sakit hati ummi nih tgk dia hari2 kat sini...mata ummi pun tak semak dgn "dia"...ummi pun tak berdosa dgn "dia"....bunyi cam kejam sgt ummi ni kan? tapi seriously...ummi dah surrender "jaga" dia.....

ummi benci "dia"? ya...memang ummi benci sangat klu org tak sedar diri...ummi benci sangat dgn org yg kita buat baik dgn dia..tapi dia balas "taik" kat kita..tak kira la sape2...klu dalam keluarga kita bertambah2 kebencian ummi...

[Puas ati ummi dapat mengumpat sorang diri...Eh sorang diri bleh kira mengumpat ke??]

Sejak kemarin..kesian abg hadi..batuk2..pastu demam...tapi anak ummi yg sorang tu tetap aktif dan lasak..pagi ni ummi terpaksa tinggal lagi abg hadi dgn moksu..sbb ummi nk bereskan preparation utk program bersama MPK jumaat nnt..ummi janji ummi balik awal..tak sabar ummi nk tatap wajah nakal tapi comel anak ummi yg sorang tu...telefon tadi moksu cakap abg hadi asik nk dukung jer..merengek2...kesian anak ummi..kesian abg hadi yg comel dan manja tu..ummi tambah risau sbb skrg kan musim penyakit berjangkit... che maiyra baru jer baik demam minggu lepas..makin comel kakak sepupu baby tu...kata Ust di opis ummi...Paeditrician ada pesan kat dia...klu ada biji2 air kt siku anak ..kt tapak tangan dia kt kaki.dia...bawa g klinik segera...takut2 terjangkit penyakit kuku dan mulut...yg tgh menular di Kuantan ni..oh balik ni nnt...ummi harus belek badan abg hadi...hopefully.. tiada simptom2 di atas..

Semoga semuanya kembali seperti biasa, BP ummi pun dah ok...tak penat sgt2 lagi dah..penat biasa2 jer..ttg "DIA" yg ummi cerita panjang lebar kt atas..lantak lah.. ummi dah tak nak amik tahu..ummi nk fokus pada abg hadi..pada baby jerr...ummi nk hargai diri ummi sbb ummi dah penat2 kerja..so ummi harus reward myself...ummi harus bebaskan diri dari hutang piutang PTPTN dan sebagainya...so ummi akan bayar setiap bulan tanpa gagal macam sebelum2 ni..ummi dah malas nk berkorban untuk org lain selain anak-anak ummi...ummi rasa dah sampai masanya masing2 tahu tanggungjawab masing2...dan wajib amik tahu supaya semuanya kembali damai.....